There are so many wonderfully, fun things to do in the Summer. Hiking, Beach trips, Concerts in the park, festivals, Farmer’s Markets, and more. Do you long to have a partner to share it all with? It’s not too late, and it’s not impossible! Here are 3 quick tips to attract more love into your heart and into your life:
1) Notice any resistance you have to love, and tap it away. Resistance comes in many forms. Maybe you think “I’m not ready for love,” or “I don’t have time for a relationship,” or “I always get hurt.” Those are resistances, and they energetically push love away, or attract incompatible people.
Any time we find ourselves saying “always” or “never” about something – that indicates a powerful limiting belief. Get to the root of it by asking yourself “How true is this?” “When has this been true for me?” Look for evidence to the contrary – the times when you DIDN’T get hurt in love – when you both decided to end things. Notice the emotions around this belief “I ALWAYS get hurt,” and write those down. Rate the intensity of each emotion – with regard to the belief “I ALWAYS get hurt” (or whatever your belief is). Tap on each one until they are at a 0. Then go back and see how true the belief feels now.
2) Love yourself – whether or not you’re in a relationship. I mean really love yourself. When we don’t love ourselves, we are super sensitive in relationship. But when we love ourselves, we have confidence, and we don’t take things so seriously.
3) Share loving thoughts and words – with everyone. I like to send what I call “p-mail” to people. This is “psychic mail,” it’s sent via thought waves. It’s especially fun while sitting in a busy airport, or at a concert, o while waiting for a friend. As people pass, send thoughts of love and appreciation to them – from your brain to theirs. You will feel so amazing, and the residual effects last for a long time. And you never know how powerful you are. If everyone were sending loving thoughts to everyone else, the world would be a loving place. Make YOUR world a loving place!
Now get out there and give and receive love!